I did a lot of stupid things when I was in college. I still do. I also did a lot of things that no doubt made my Savior weep. And I still do. Thus, I can completely identify with the mindset that would motivate a college student – or a person of any age, for that matter – to make a silly video, emulating a popular movement known as the “Harlem Shake.”
Yet all this doesn’t diminish the sadness I experienced when I saw a video of students from my alma mater participating in the erotic dance in a very public venue on campus. There was bumping. There was grinding. There was silliness and revelry – all classified by many Christians, no doubt, as simple and innocent fun.
What’s the problem with a little bit of fun, anyway? No one was harmed. There is a time for everything, after all. And anyone who would find fault with it is simply a puritanical prude. Besides, there is context to the occasion; it is participation in a wider cultural experiment and pursuit. It’s innocent.
Never mind the other errors of such thought-processes, I think this definition from Susanna Wesley – mother of John – enunciates the pitfalls of this minimalist mindset the best:
Take this rule: whatever weakens your reason, impairs the tenderness of your conscience, obscures your sense of God, or takes off your relish of spiritual things; in short, whatever increases the strength and authority of your body over your mind, that thing is sin to you, however innocent it may be in itself.
It seems to me that the “Harlem Shake,” however innocent it may appear to some, doesn’t pass Susanna’s criteria – which, I should hasten to add, seems to be a good paraphrase of Philippians 4:8 – on any level.
Of course, to a large degree, I don’t necessarily blame these young people for the behavior. Young people, to a great extent, are simply living as good as they’ve been taught (and putting into practice what the older generation would love to do in theory – were they not too self-conscious). They’re a reflection of where we are as a people – a people who have not been gripped by the grace and love of Christ to the point that we want to live entirely by His Spirit rather than our flesh; a people who have forgotten that we’re participants in a “great controversy” where Christ is waiting for us to testify unequivocally that He is a God who not only is love but a God who is powerful enough to transform us into other-centered, self-denying people.
In fact, I don’t blame anyone. I simply look in the mirror and say, “Lord, forgive me for my rebellious heart – and change me from within.”
We are here on this earth, after all, to live selfless and other-centered lives – a goal that I fall far short of all too often.
manny said:
agreed! did you see this? http://youtu.be/MHAIqcosI3I
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Jonathan said:
looked a little bit like what you would picture the israelites dancing around the golden calf… 🙂
newenglandpastor said:
Manny: yes, I saw it.
And Jonathan, yes, you are not the first person who has made the comparison!
Melanie said:
Spectrum ran a contest between the different schools that posted videos. http://spectrummagazine.org/blog/2013/02/17/con-los-adventistas-higher-ed-does-harlem-shake
I wish these students understood how they are paining the heart of God.
newenglandpastor said:
I noticed that Melanie, and I completely agree!
This is silly said:
Don’t you think this might be a bit of overkill? The exact same thing was said of the foxtrot, Elvis, and once upon a time, showing an ankle. Culture and context change, but sowing the seeds of shaming never goes out of vogue, apparently.
newenglandpastor said:
Thanks for your comments, “This Is Silly.” Perhaps, however, you can clarify how there was any “shaming” going on in this post.
This is silly said:
Condemning a “sinful” youth culture and sighing over how “sad this must make the Lord” is the very definition of shaming.
Yes, this fad is silly and an attempt to seek attention and internet validation. Is it soul-harming? Hardly.
newenglandpastor said:
So merely evaluating a person’s behavior and concluding that it must make God sad is “condemning” and “shaming”? No one is judging motives, eternal destiny, or anything of the sort. To do so would be, as you say, “condemning.” We are simply evaluating the appropriateness or inappropriateness of a behavior. We’re not trying to read hearts.
Should a person never do this – or must we turn a blind eye to everything?
newenglandpastor said:
In response to your second point: simply taking your words that their motives are to “seek attention” (which is what you have ascribed to them), then, biblically, you contradict your own conclusion that it is not “soul-harming.” See Philippians 2:5-8. Any time my motive is to “seek attention” for myself I am not living out the mind of Christ. Sadly, I do this often in my own life, so I condemn no one.
But any time I continue with this type of mindset and behavior, it is very soul-harming because I am indicating that the attention Christ gives me is not enough. I am not ascribing this motive to any in the videos, but simply speaking in generalities. All must evaluate their motives for themselves and be cognizant of this sobering dynamic.
Brandon said:
I was a committed evangelical Christian for most of my life until, through a thorough examination of the evidence, I became an atheist. I have to admit that one happy side effect of no longer being a part of the Christian culture is that I can appreciate people being silly and letting loose without having to judge them for being impious. I’m so glad I’m no longer a Christian. You people will seriously find fault with anything.
Lighten up a little. You really are only going to live once. Be a good person and enjoy the time you have.
A concerned mother said:
It pains my heart to hear you claim atheism as if it was some wonderful new discovery that has set you free. I am aware that whatever I write in reply will not change your mind, but as a mother I feel led to try anyway. I have three children; their ages range oldest to youngest 28,26, and 21. I had my first, a son at the age of 30 and for the following ten years I raised them as my mother had raised me. I have to add that my mother raised me the best she knew how with example from her mother who had 16 children. My mother was not a Christian, but she did take us to church every Sunday. I had a knowledge of God, but that was all. In 1989 we moved with two children to a small city on the eastern shore. In 1991 I gave birth to my youngest child. In 1994 I decided to home school my son because of some problems he was having in school. The following year I added his younger sister. At the time I was sending the two of them to Church every Sunday on a bus that would come by and pick them up. I did not go to church myself nor did my husband who was a non-practicing Muslim. On Easter Sunday I decided to take my youngest daughter, then four, and walk down the street to a little church on the corner. I had only planned on going that Sunday because it was Easter. I continued to go though, every Sunday after that and learned about Jesus and salvation. In February of 1998 I gave birth to a girl. She was stillborn. The people of that church loved us through the next several months following my baby’s death with meals, and groceries, and cards, and visits and soon afterwards my husband began attending church and gave his heart to Jesus in 2000. The life of my entire family was changed by Jesus Christ. My oldest daughter is married to a wonderful Christian man who was truly hand-picked by God. My son, after many trials has been connected to a young lady who I just know was sent to him by the Lord. I could sight many other examples of God’s working in our lives since that first Easter Sunday. I cannot believe that anyone would choose atheism over Christ. If this is all there is, then what a cruel twist of fate. I will be praying for you that you would feel the pull of the Holy Spirit drawing you back to Christ. I have nothing to gain by trying to open your eyes to the truth. Like I said at the beginning of this comment, I am a mother who has a heart for children. Not only my own.
Rev. Jeetabagov Dix said:
Yes, clearly this is something that our omnipotent Father frowns upon. Shame on any would-be “Christian” who does such a thing.
Josiah said:
I can’t dissagree with this more. I’m not a normal follower of your page but I had to post a reply after a friend linked me to it.
It’s funny that even though we puport to share the same God, my God has a sense of humor where as yours sounds like a pretty uptight guy for someone who you know, created humor.
The idea that Jesus, a man who probably had a decent sense of humor, would weep over this is laughable for a guy who spent his time with people that were a lot worse off than some kids having fun doing stupid dance moves on a video meme.
Maybe take the condemnation of youth down a notch. The kids are all right. They don’t need you judging and condeming them for being young and having fun. The problem is that you are trying to find fault and sin in, and I know you don’t share this thought, HARMLESS FUN. Yup. Harmless. I challenge you to site an example of actual harm that has been caused by this video meme.
No one is going to have a lesser relationship with God because they participated in a meme just like no one is actually being harmed by these videos. If you think that we as humans are so fragile that we can’t seperate pointless stupid fun and actually sinning then I’m betting we don’t share much in commen. Maybe except for the fact that we have the same label as Christians.
Like Isrealites dancing around the golden calf…… do you know how crazy that comparison is Jonathan? It’s a meme dude. Do you know what a meme is?
Paining the heart of God??? How is it that you know how God feels about this subject? Did you ask him in person and get a response or are you just making assumptions Melanie? You know what I wish? I wish you understood how you are representing your belief to the world.
You don’t know the hearts of the people who are making the videos but you are claiming that they are guilty of sin. How very judgemental of you. And we wonder why attendance numbers in the church drop.
In other words: Lighten up people. The sin is on your heads and you are projecting it onto others.
Have a great day.
al metcalf said:
If you can’t recognize this as sin then you also need to truly find God.
stork said:
ure kidding right? Someone send u a link? Have u not seen what other “dances” have been around for the past 5-10 yrs? Good luck with this…
Amoeba Q. Cartwheel said:
Have you never seen Jamaican dancehall daggering? There is much worse dancing out there.
Shayne Mathis said:
There is nothing what-so-ever in that video that could be considered “erotic”. No one is bumping and grinding as you claim. The most risque thing is a guy with no shirt on. If you people find a bunch of kids dancing around like goofs sexually arousing, than you’re the ones with the problems – not them. Weirdos.
Steve Shedell said:
A five minute search online proves that this fad is indeed associated with crude, sexual acting. Since I’ve yet to see the world’s entertainment media condemn this particular behavior, I have to conclude that they approve of it. Therefore, based on James 4, verse 4, such “silliness” is completely inappropriate for Christians.
Conna Bond said:
Appreciated this kind, sensitive, personal response.
Ron Welch said:
It was enlightening to read the negative responses first, and then the article. It made me wonder how many negative responders actually and carefully read the entire piece.
A Different Kind of Woman said:
Ron, I wondered the same…
Neal Lawson said:
they are just having fun just chill, its ok,
Raphael L said:
I can’t even express my sorrow… The reason I am an Adventist is because I want to fallow a savior with my whole heart and tell others of his mercy. Doing a Harlem Shake will not bring more to the church nor will it show Christs character. I am only 19 and I understand why youth want attention, but according to my understanding we become more like Jesus and less like this world. I do not want to judge the people but their actions. I really can’t see Jesus doing the Harlem Shake with his disciples. Never had I thought possible, that the shaking of adventisim could start with a real shake. I may be wrong in my thoughts and if I am please correct me! But if you do… do it with love and founded on the Bible.
Harlem Shake said:
I love the Harlem Shake. It seems a very funny and ridiculous dance.
Aurora
Lee Folkman said:
In all these “chill out”, “it’s not so bad”, “lighten up”, “there are worse things,” etc. comments, I can distinctly hear the phrase, “We will not have this man to reign over us.” (Luke 19:14)
“Ye adulterers and adulteresses, know ye not that the friendship of the world is enmity with God? whosoever therefore will be a friend of the world is the enemy of God.” (James 4:4)
kewlcate said:
I agree with the earlier poster that this article is very Pharisaical. We do not lead others to Christ in this way. I have yet to read in the Scriptures one time when Jesus reproved people in this way. I appreciate your discernment but I would urge you find a different way to give your reproof – using Jesus as your example. He changed hearts, not through criticism, or self-righteousness, but because of his limitless capacity to care, to peer into a person’s soul and understand their need. If you feel the youth are being distracted by the things of this world, visit your alma mater and spend some time ministering to them. Get to know them, tell them of Jesus love, tell them of his outstretched hand, tell them of his desire to be with them, that they can put all their trust in him. And then let the Holy Spirit do that which only God can do. Be mindful of the beam in your own eye as you cast your criticisms so broadly and assuredly.
Melody said:
Really appreciated the graceful way this topic was approached. Thank you! No matter what people say trying to justify “love of the world”…or the craziness that results from this mindset (I saw a few of those comments here), I believe that we as Christians should be living to please the God of another World, and that’s Heaven! I’m so thankful He is coming soon…and all the blindness and deception that the enemy has thrown upon God’s church will finally be removed. It breaks my heart to see what is happening. But it also breaks my heart when I realize all the sin that is still in my own life… I praise God that He came to save sinners, of whom I am chief.
Blake Jones said:
What this post shows me is that no matter how kindly, gently and humbly you reprove wrongdoing there is a faction of the church that will condemn you. Therefore I don’t think we need to concern ourselves with displeasing these “5th column” critics. They were there in Jesus’ and are still present today. There are wrong and all we can do is share the testimony of God’s word with them and reason with them. Hopefully that and the testimony of the Spirit will help them to see God character and will more clearly.
The Bible condemns foolishness (which this obviously is). Here’s some examples:
“For from within, out of the heart of man, come evil thoughts, sexual immorality, theft, murder, adultery, coveting, wickedness, deceit, sensuality, envy, slander, pride, foolishness. All these evil things come from within, and they defile a person.” Mark 7:21-23
Let there be no filthiness nor foolish talk nor crude joking, swhich are out of place, but instead let there be thanksgiving. Ephesians 5:4
A concerned mother said:
1 Peter 2:9 – But ye [are] a chosen generation, a royal priesthood, an holy nation, a peculiar people; that ye should shew forth the praises of him who hath called you out of darkness into his marvellous light: